New to fetish? Nervous about your Kink? Worried about visiting a Mistress?
Don’t Panic!
Although only in my late twenties I have a wealth of experience in the fetish community and I adore my job – I would love to show you exactly how much fun it is! I do not shout or swear and would never dream of doing anything in our time together without your explicit consent. For me BDSM is a mutual exchange where both parties should be having as much enjoyment from the experience as possible and I endeavour that every encounter with me is one you will not forget.
For first time clients I generally recommend the following session:
- You being told what to do
- Light spanking
- Light bondage on my specialised bondage furniture
- Tie & tease
- Light anal play
- Stocking worship
- JOI (jerk off instructions)
We can include any kinks that have sparked your imagination – just ask! My aim for an introductory session is that you relax and enjoy yourself as much as possible, perhaps with a view to ramping it up a notch next time…
I would love to hear all about the kinks that have made you curious enough to take the plunge, and being the person to take you on the very important first journey is a privilege I take very seriously. You don’t have to be submissive to explore BDSM – having a specific kink or fetish is also something I can help you explore without having to ‘feel submissive’ while this happens.
I am also more than happy to help couples explore kink, as a learning experience or topping both/one of you.
Curious about pegging?
Pegging is a very normal kink that I spend a significant amount of time helping people explore, and often people can be a little shy about bringing it up. I just love pegging new playthings! The only prep I need of you is that you arrive recently showered, I don’t need you to overthink or panic and try to over prepare by trying to do in depth cleaning or prep at home prior to arrival (that can occasionally have the opposite effect, I promise nothing will be unpleasant or messy). Just bring yourself and an open mind – I can cover everything else.
Pegging sessions will start with a warm up to relax you, and I always move up very slowly to sterilised and covered toys. It should never be painful, but might feel a little unusual – it is a very intense experience but an awful lot of fun. I have a real knack for popping anal cherries in a way that will blow your mind…
Being a little nervous when you start out exploring is completely normal, and helping you work through it is something I really enjoy – helping you enjoy your first time can lead to the start of a really wonderful journey. We will agree everything prior to arrival you don’t need to worry about being shy about telling me about your kinks in person which can also feel daunting for some.
If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask away – there is no such thing as a silly question in BDSM.
Kisses,
Mistress Nina x